Hey,

I have been in a very similar situation about 2 years ago but it was with my mental health worker and other people that worked in the department she worked in. She was my only support and she was removed without any warning and I was never allowed to speak to her again!!
I was "accused" of being "too friendly" and treated like dirt by people in the department. I filed a complaint but as always it's their word against mine and I knew there was no point in fighting it because they would always win - I was the mental case! I was talked to in such an awful way by my mental health workers boss and It was an awful situation which ended with me doing something stupid to try and cope with the pain of loss and of how awful i felt.

It took me at least a year to stop crying every time I talked about the incident and I held a lot of anger and there was a lot of unfinished bussiness with my mental health worker which I never got answers for...so it ended really badly. I still feel anger about the situation at times but I had to move on...just like you are doing.

I think you need to ask yourself how you will feel if it just opens old wounds and could make the situation worse. You could find that the Therapist says things you dont want to hear and still had the same opinions on the situation that he did back then. It sounds like you were very hurt by the situation and things he did and said and I wonder if he could do those things when he was your therapist then theres just as much chance he could say the wrong thing now.

I know how it feels to have this loose end in your mind that you just want some resolve on but perhaps the resolve was that you parted ways?

I wouldn't recommend contacting this therapist but the choice is ultimately yours of course.