I don't know what to tell you (other than I hope you have learned something that will help you with the new pdoc?). I don't know what "advice" your doctor gave you, whether it was med-related or something else. If it was med-related, I can see where that would put him in a "useless" bind, as that's what he knows/is good at and if you don't want what he's offering, I can't see why he would continue to keep taking your money? What did you like about the old one that you wouldn't try or "follow" his advice? I wish you would tell me more so I could better understand why you won't try what a doctor suggests but then berate yourself for it?