I have to agree with JMO - ones anxiety level (or not) during sex will have a lot to do with how they perceive sex to be, as a good thing or a dirty event.... past sexual abuse can also play a part in how one will feel during sex.

I personally use/want sex to relax myself and/ or to dismiss my anxiety level.... one night with hubby can make me capable of going another day without fear.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -