Dear Demo -

Your situation sounds just like mine.... and let me tell you that he (my husband) has not changed in 20 years and yet he does love me and is very much into me - it is just done his way and not that of how I think it should be done or lived.
The best advice that I can give you right now is NOT to be to NEEDY of him or you will drive him away from you, rather is its physically or just emotionally.

Please keep in mind that while ones partner is to give back to the relationship that your over whelming need for attention is a deeper matter all by its self and needs to be faced and dealt with - for no man a live will be able to fill it.
I say this not to hurt YOU but to HELP you - for I have been where you are right now - heck I still go there some times.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -