Well, Lexicon,

Most affairs (sexual or emotional) is usually about one persons need not being meet by the other partner - when they feel unloved, unwanted and not cherished then they might step out of the relationship and seek what they are emotionally missing.
But please do keep in mind that if you do not fix the first the relationship then the problems that lied with in there will just show its self in the next.

A lot of men tend to love another person (a lady) based on how they speak the language of love and they can easily forget that we, the females, speak a foreign language to their over all simple male love language.... we all need someone to share our life with, but we (males & females) find love and intimacy in totally different ways.
Maybe he needs to be shown and taught how you NEED for HIM to LOVE YOU - in a way that you can actually feel it based on what you need.... an not on his male needs.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -