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Apr 27, 2011, 09:16 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I don't know what else you can do that you've haven't done already. You can't control what you're ex might be saying/doing. If he's that vindictive that he has to mean-mouth you to other people, that doesn't say much for him. People SHOULD be able to see thru that, but unfortunately many people don't. if any man said stuff like that to me about his ex-wife, I would think badly of the MAN, not the ex-wife.
Don't think of getting back at him because that will just blow up in your face -- and make you look REALLY bad. Just ignore the obvious, and keep trying to arrange play-dates for your son. Be the "better man" so to speak, and don't let it affect you.  When people see that you aren't the person that HE'S trying to make you out to be, they'll come around.
I wish you the very best!!! It sounds like you're a great Mom. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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