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But please do keep in mind that if you do not fix the first the relationship then the problems that lied with in there will just show its self in the next.
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The above part was sorta hard to read, but I think the gist is 'fix what you're in at the moment or you won't know how to avoid it the next time. Or fix it the next time.'
Well I disagree. I've always seen how Lexi's bf is not a nice guy in the posts she has made and how she talks about him. He hurts her, deliberately. Period. What the blazes can she do to fix HIM? Nothing. And really, why would he want to fix himself (if he even would listen to the far-fetched idea that there is (OH HEAVENS!!) something wrong with him) because he's got it made in the shade with Lexi. Yeah, he's got this poor girl under his thumb, where he can control her exquisitely, keep her off balance just enough to make him feel powerful.
And Lexi can fix that?!?!?!?! I have my doubts.
What is needed is to very carefully extricate herself from this relationship without the mention of any other involvement with men, because this guy could be dangerous to her.
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Lee
Working on my 'Inner Child' to this day.
http://psychcentral.com/psyhelp/chap15/chap15j.htm
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