Thanks 4 all of you for helping well apart from the ones who kind of attacked me . . even though i deserved it 4 those thoughts . . and no wolfsong im not the victim and at the same time no-one is since i have never done anytin . . and why are you sayin i would hurt your kids?? dats a horrible accusation . . but other those comments. . i have calmed down . . one girl actually went as far as to grind up on him at a bar and i immediatly saw red but sumthing stopped before the thoughts even got far . . something LazyLogophile had said stuck " if hes going to cheat he will,theres nothing you can do about it. Why not laugh about it and enjoy life? . . And if he does cheat on you, then thank him for it because it means you can move on and find someone who will be faithful to you and appreciate you." . . your whole post was just so nice and sweet and realy spoke to me . . a special thanks to you!! x