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Old Apr 27, 2011, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by peaches100 View Post
I felt a connection with her when she said she wanted to give me one. But when she didn't do it, I felt disconnected and sad.
This is important. I'm thinking that because of fear of intimacy you keep your distance from people and just connect through simple things which aren't the real deal. So when these flimsy things fall through it is devastating for you. What I think would help is working past the fear of intimacy so that you have real intimacy and then this stuff isn't flimsy and can't break down so easily and disappoint.
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Thanks for this!
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