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Originally Posted by Sannah
Maybe it isn't so much the feelings that hurt but what is hurting is your actions to repress those buggers! (The fighting the feelings is what is hurting). What also might hurt is your thoughts about letting the feelings out? Do you think that if you let your feelings out that your parents won't love you?
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the fighting and the thoughts are probably causing pain all right!
surrender would no doubt help but why isn't surrender easier......
I am not worried about my parents not loving me....I know they do and will anyway. I am more concerned I think with the people around me.....concerned about being hurt by them if I am so vulnerable. And concerned about being hurt again by T if I do happen to surrender to tears in session.....rationally I know she won't hurt me, she will probably cry with me, yet I am so unaccustomed to crying in front of anyone I don't even know how to at all.....