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Old Apr 27, 2011, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by zooropa View Post
I need help reframing this in a way that makes it not T personally rejecting me. That's what stings the most right now, the thought that I let her in, let her really see me, and she can't take it. If she needs space, if she needs down time, that I can completely understand. But her coldness and her rejection, it just hurts too much.
The quote going through my head right now and which I hope she understands is - bad behaviour doesn't mean your a bad person. I dont even mean that as in saying you did behave badly but just that you as a person are not only the sum of your behaviour in therapy.
Thanks for this!
zooropa