Hi James.
Someone once told me that I was putting entirely too much pressure on myself trying to figure out if I was gay, bi, or straight. I think that is what you are doing here.
Having an open mind is a start. You dont have to commit yourself one way or the other until you have experimented and you can figure out what your preference is. Could be that you like both men and women and that is OK. It is OK is you just like men and it is OK if you just like women. Point is, It's ok.
I also think that talking to your T about this is a great idea. T's can often shed light on our thoughts and give us something to ponder. Just relax.
Please keep us posted. Take good care of yourself James.
Huggles,
Jen
BTW, Darkeyes posted a cyber hug to you up there. Just so ya know (((((James))))), that would be a hug