[quote=Distressed2010;1821536]the only thing that is also bothering me now is that i get this urge to see a picture of the girl he likes, just to see if she's prettier than me. I won't be able to move past this until i see her and do an analysis.
How can i control my urge?
its super hard. I should be sleeping but I've been up coz this thing is revolving in my head, I really want to see it... is this normal?[/quote
HELLLLLO DEAR,
I am sliding in for that catch, yes, got it. LOL Well, if you get the picture can you post it and lets all see?
This is called natural curiousity.
The urge you have is very normal. You are not inspecting her, you are questioning yourself. See what these people have done? They have made you question yourself. I came along and told you the game, and you felt better. You even wanted to look for work and get going. But now you are doubting yourself again.
Even if you had her picture, you would not really see what this guy sees. He may be just looking at a lay. This is what his age is dear. And if you do get the picture you will not be seeing her mind. He isn't either, it is all compulsive to him. This girl may be a girl that has none of your qualities. It may be a girl that he can use and discard. And by the way you describe of this crew that is what they do, use, abuse, and discard.
Actually if this girl is someone that the sister approves of? That doesn't say much to me either. There is something that you are not getting here. YOU ARE A NICE PERSON, YOU DO NOT BELONG WITH THEM, AND THEY KNOW IT. That is why they don't like you.
You like to analyze, and this situation is catching your interest. But the effort is only useful if you understand that these people are not anything that you are ever going to feel any comfort with. The personality combination here is negetive and it is also abusive and these people are the ones that are insecure. This is why they play their game, it is all about how well they can control to make themselves look good. But the good they are after is futile. The people that politic like this are exibiting psycopathic behavior. What this means is that they seek control without remorse. These people are bad Karma collectors. Why do you want to hang with them?
Look at it this way, if this guy ends up getting this girl, look what she is in for, MISERY. Talk about Distressed, no no no.
Distressed, you are at the age where women are hormonally primed to reproduce. This is a trick dear, natures trick and it is very powerful.
So, this is why you dive the way you do. You see a good diving spot and you just put your arms up and dive. So, you have fight this a little and use your head. And, that can be hard because you are in the drive for nature's desire. And my dear, so is that guy, but he is not looking for a steady, no where near a life long thing. And he lets his little sister control him? What is left for any potential mate?
I am telling you, it just isn't there, get some sleep, it is not worth your brain space. You do need to find some people that you can grow with and that doesn't necessarily mean a group. People in groups tend to play games so you have to be careful. The best group of people to look for is a group that is working towards something a real product or activity, not social control.
I think you had a good idea about looking for work, that is time well spent. That may be a place that has a productive group depending on what the job entails.
Ok?
Open Eyes
