I am glad she called and said the right things......now she needs to DO the right things, like keep good boundaries, because I think the people who mentioned that were right.....and she was honest in saying she didn't set good limits. I hope you both can learn from this and move forward, although I understand very well how hard it is to move forward with T when trust is broken, when T has hurt you, failed to set good boundaries and hurt you.....it happened to me recently but we are managing to move forward, so i hope you are able to, too!