"She was sarcastic and condescending." This part bothers me a lot. Also, if she said to call her whenever you need to, then whenever you need to should be ok. If she is not happy with the subject of your phone call, then she needs to take responsibility for not setting specific limits about your calls which should be done in person at a session. I'm glad she admitted she didn't set limits etc. Still, you have to decide about the sarcasm. Maybe you could bring that up if you go back and let her know how hurtful that is. You can make your needs known too. You can let her know what you are not willing to accept. Also, another thing that stands out is why is she doing all the talking? Why is she interrupting you? That is pretty disrespectful behavior on her part. Only you can decide if this is worth it to you or if you need to find someone else. How long have you been seeing her?
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