Mostly the posts are for support due to concerns for issues or for help when something isn't going well. This isn't necessarily representative of what happens all the time. "Yeah!, my meds are working", does not happen often because sometimes we overlook the fact that they are working just as we often overlook many of the positive things in our lives, discounting them. Meds can help in some cases, is why they're prescribed, and when done responsibly as Googley describes above can be beneficial.

Sometimes it takes a trial or so to find the right ones, but like me, the ones I have now have helped, with side-effects that are beneficial, and for decades. My personality is the same, that has not changed, it only helps with my anxiety and mood swings (different diagnosis). However who I am personality-wise is still there, fortunately and unfortunately.

Talk with your doctor, do your own research on how meds might help or not affecting your anxiety, research other treatments as well that might influence anxiety, and research several meds he/she might be considering, so you can make an informed decision for your care.

Meanwhlle, it can be difficult struggling with anxiety. I wish you all the best as you look for and find the right treatment for you. Best wishes.