James says, "?".

I was only showing a sign, that I feel for you. I have several close relatives, nephews,etc. that are going through a very similar point in their lives, and they often talk with me about how they are feeling, and I am there for them.
Sorry, that left you in question, or feeling uncomfortable with "hugs",if that's how it left you feeling.
I promise I won't reply anymore.

Take care,
DE