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I think my question about it is this. Is she deliberately avoiding anything about my feelings for her in her emails to me? If so, it hurts me to be so vulnerable and not be validated. My T is not like that at all. She has told me over and over that she accepts all of my parts and that I should do the same. I don't think expressing love to her is a problem. That's why I'm confused as to why it's a problem to reassure me with two words: "it's all right" in her email. I don't get it! I just want to know what others think and why she is withholding that reassurance from me.
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hi rainbow,
i'd encourage you to read the above paragraph again, as you answered your own question!
you said it yourself, that your therapist accepts you. i don't think she's deliberately doing anything over email, and maybe it would be good for you to step away from email as well. if you do, it might be easier for you to remember/reconnect with what is real in the relationship.
seventyeight