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Originally Posted by VenusHalley
YES
I would be a leetle sad, but not overly hurt. I mean therapist is not your BFF... and I admit I often promise something and forget it (sending postcards from places, bringing people books or stuff).
So don't take it too personally. It was probably huge family gathering for the holiday... she did not do "forget" you intentionally.
It makes it sometimes hard to think that we are not the only one person in someone's life... but it is so. Sometimes it's hard to balance all people in your life too...
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Hi VenusHalley,
Yeh, I know she's not my bff or anything. I wonder if I had some close friends, maybe i wouldn't put soooooo much significance on my relationship with t?? I admit I forget things too, i really hate being a space cadet!! So i should make that allowance for other people too. I know my main problem isn't my t, but it's my own feeling of being invisible and not important. If i could root that out, then maybe i wouldn't see rejection everywhere??