i know this may be hard to hear but it seems to me that this is some sort of self fulfilling prof icy if you keep calling,texting,leaving VM's.she probably will burn out.is this what you want is this your goal.you need to give her a break she is human.i so get this out of control feeling.maybe you could try using a hot line or something like that just to give T a little time to recoup.i hope you can have a piecefull night and maybe some rest.