Thanks everyone for your responses. I need to clarify some things. First, I didn't look up anything until after I "fell in love with him". I also didn't pick him, he is a grad student at a training clinic. It was after I experienced major transference that I had this insatiable desire to find out everything I could about him, to knock him off his pedestal and see him as a real person so that I could subdue my feelings for him(which hasn't helped). I don't know where he lives because I don't want to know. I think I did tell him that the reason I did tell him this was to try to open up and show him I trust him, if not I will the next time. The other reason I told him is because I didn't think he realized how much personal info was out there about him and I am not going to go crazy pyscho on him but maybe someone else will and I thought he should reign some of that info in. I do care about him a lot.
It is nice to have this off my shoulders. I just need to figure out why I feel I should be punished for this. I mean.......to play the devil's advocate........everything I found was public knowledge...........facebook, google, etc. Thanks everyone for your input. You guys have helped me in so many ways, mostly as I lurk and read and I really appreciate it.