oh Sky what a predicament you are in. It seems that no matter which way you turn there are huge obstacles. Do you think you could work with your t specifically on flying prior to going and take some meds that would help? i am sorry that is the best i can come up with right now. it seems like such an opportunity to go and that you really would like to. maybe someone could go with you and help either with driving or flying? i wish i had an answer for you.

i agree that even if you find you can not make it feel honored that you were even asked. i hope you find a solution.