I'm seeing that my situation is different from most of the sexual addiction stories I've read and the difference is my partner is not seeking help what so ever, He refuses to acknowledge his problem at all. Every single day, he engages in some form of sexual activity (usually more than 5 hours a day) and everyday he lies about it. He erases the history on the computer, deletes his call logs. He shows no desire to change infact he seems almost proud . He often uses the screen name proud*****sexaddict*** when he signs up for dating sites. I am about t he most understanding and empathetic people I know. I have tried to be there for him but he wont let me. Thank You for all your comments and for just listening