My husband is 2 WEEKS older than me, so as said above, no guarantee of a good married sex life!

I find that he has trouble talking about things with you the most troubling. How can anything get better if he wont even talk about it.

I would tell him how important intimacy is to you. And sex. Make sure he knows the difference! LOL And tell him sometimes you just need to be held, touched, and to feel loved and that you really need a cuddle. And that you need it from him.

Or when you're both in bed and it's not really Sleep Time, say I don't really feel like sex, unless you wanna change my mind, but I need some snuggling.

GL!