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Scared I am becoming co-dependent
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Apr 29, 2011, 08:48 AM
lastyearisblank
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How terrible that must feel. I don't blame you for being upset.
Idk if this is part of your relationship usually, but I noticed in your post that he's making a lot of promises to be able to hang out "maybe" Tuesday or Wednesday, or after the semester is over. You know if I were you I would get really busy on those days really fast!!!! Too busy if you know what I mean..
I have to recommend this book "He's not that into you," I know it's so cheesy, I totally scoffed too, but when my roommate gave it to me in college it was pretty eye opening. Basically before that I would always assume I had better time management skills, I could plan ahead-- of course the guy was busier so, of course if he called me up at 8 pm on a Saturday asking to go to dinner at 9 pm on a Saturday, I would feel guilty saying no. Of course, that meant never having things on my term and always waiting for a call which would NEVER come at a convenient time. Basically it helps to set up healthier boundaries for yourself of what you can and can't tolerate. If you don't like how this guy is treating you.... that is your right!!!!!!
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