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Old Apr 29, 2011, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge View Post
if "deflecting" is what I think it is, probably yes.

so what would yr T tell me is appropriate? Just let the misery drag me down into the darkness? The pain is horrible - are we not allowed even to writhe a little?!
I agree. I think we should be able to sidestep when it gets to be too much. A T should know what our limits are. I've experienced my T pulling back when she senses I can't do much more.