I bring a real appreciation for her efforts and her caring. I bring my philosophy of life which I believe she resonates with. I bring my sensitivity to the arts which I think she likes. I bring my ongoing growth which she finds exciting to witness. I bring as much 'realness' as possible. I bring an eagerness to learn and to change. Unfortunately I also bring some built-in resistance. I don't mean to but it's really really hard to allow the emotions full-play.