I know he is very immature. I have talked to my family about things that go on around the house and they are very negative about him. In fact the one comment they make a lot is about his job. Because he will not look for a better job, they tell me I need to find someone who has a future and money.

His job is in customer service. For as much as a crappy job it is, he only makes a couple of thousand less than me a year. He splits half the bills for the house and is able to cover them with no problems. So I do not know what the big deal is.