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Maybe I am wrong but I thought that a glass of wine every now and again is ok....good for the heart I thought too?
Personally I don't see a red flag about it.....and if it is bothering you that much...as well as adding to your anxiety and stress level....do you have an option of changing docs? Maybe he has a personal issue about it? I would question him further. It is sad that you feel blacklisted and I am so sorry

...you are seeing him to help you and that doesn't sound like it is helping very much.

Heather