Hi ToastwithButter,

I hate to say this, and I don't want this to come across mean-spirited, but I think you blew it.

You wanted control of the situation and you didn't care how you controlled it as long as you did. If this is the way you act when you are drinking, it is no wonder she wouldn't want to be around you. Would you want to be around you when you are this way?

Unfortunately, you didn't respect her either. When she told you she would call you and you continued to show up at her place and to call her and text her, it proved to her that it was all about you (even if you were really trying to apologize), you didn't respect what she was telling you.

Dating someone for 2 months does not make a life-long relationship. Evidently, something you have done has bothered her and she seems to not want to be involved with you anymore. It may be prudent on your part to accept what you have done wrong, work hard at changing that behavior and using this knowledge with future relationships. You are a young adult and still have lots to learn about yourself and others.

My suggestion is to let it be....move on with your life, learn from your mistakes, fix anything within yourself that needs fixing and you will be fine!

Wishing you well.