Well, I ended our relationship tonight and I hurt like crazy. I went to bed last night thinking whatever happened( about the whole computer thing) just needed to be left alone and maybe it will work itself out. so tonight he picked me up and we went to my grandsons 2nd birthday party . things were fine , he had seen a girl who attended the party and asked me if it was the same girl that came to my grandsons 1st birthday party? I said yes & then about 20 minutes later I sat next to my 17yr old son and he was having a conversation with my b/f....finding out that he was asking my son about that same girl ....I flipped out! I understand that men & woman look and all that stuff but he was asking my son about her after already asking me....knowing how I am, why would he do something like that? I was so hurt and still am ..I told him it was best that we don't talk to each other ever again. I don't want to be in a relationship that I always feel like I can't trust him or be with someone who makes me feel so unimportant when we are together. I will miss him dearly and this is going to be so hard for me but I'm letting him go and maybe he will find that ms right . I know I'm probably wrong for feeling the way I do and not trusting but I also feel ...He made me that way by his actions. now I have to learn to be alone again and hope that someday I will find someone who will respect me enough and make me feel like I matter...I don't know how to even start to get over him ....just feeling sad right now