Yeah, you are correct Peaches. I guess I didn't realize how many replies that you get to your threads! I'm being impatient I guess! I'm sorry about my mistake.

Maybe with your parents you just learned what to expect from them so this is why you have a blunted response to their mistreatment but with your T you are more hopeful so you get hurt? I'll bet there is some repression going on too, like Elena explained.

I would just keep trying to access that pain from the past so that you can work through it. You seem to be focusing so much on the present issue that triggers you that you can't focus on the past wounds?