I just read "what's going on" with you 2Much. I am so sorry! That's a pretty troublesome list of traits and circumstances involving your soon-to-be X boyfriend. I have my concerns too, about his instability. He doesn't have a good track record. I think you're taking the only choice available to you. I think the suggestion to have a friend, or friends, over when you see him next is a good idea. Maybe you can get a feel for how he is going to react in the immediate future. I would defininatey urge to err on the side of caution.......I want you to be safe, and situations like these can quickly escalate with very undesirable consequences. Are there friends or family that you could stay with for a brief while until you get a feel for how things are going to go? I will be thinking of you 2Much...........please keep us posted almost minute to minute here..........it will be a worry until it's well behind you. Stay strong........hugs.......grey