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Originally Posted by confused and dazed
Has anyone else gone through this with their T?
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I have had some negative transference towards my T a few times and it was hard. It wasn't the angry kind but the kind where I expected him to react like my parents had, in a condemnatory way if I shared a particular something with him. This was really hard for me. I wanted to share this thing with him but absolutely couldn't because I was sure he would react badly. We talked about this and it did not help. I know he is not my parents and it would be uncharacteristic of him to act so judgmentally, as he never has. But it was just a potent feeling. I could not overcome it. I felt very bad for thinking he would be like this but I couldn't help it, and I did apologize to him for thinking ill of him in this way. I really don't see him that way. Oh, well. I just had to drop the topic because of those strong, negative feelings. I hope to come back to that topic one day and try again.