((((((((((((((((((((LMo)))))))))))))))))))))))))

That's tough! I wish her and her child well.

I'm glad that t's working with you on this. You have so much to offer...intelligence, compassion, understanding, time, resources, etc. It's easy for one in this position to fall into a "rescuer" role with people in life. I was so there and my world crashed completely when the worlds of those I tried to help fell.

Having said that, I think that you have A REALLY HEALTHY response to what happened. I really do. Had that been me a few years ago, I would've been crushed and felt responsible.

You carry a very good balance and emotional outlook on many things in your life, lady.

It took me my entire life and many years of therapy to be where you're at with this. It's nice to see.

KD