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He really only wakes me up when I am asleep in the living room. But anyhow I do get mad sometimes depending on what stage of sleep I am in. When I get mad he thinks it is funny.

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I can't really agree or disagree with your family. I don't know what they've observed of this guy. Based on what you've just said, though, I'm going to reinforce my earlier opinion that he's acting like a jerk.

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He does not ever humilate or insult me.

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In my opinion, doing something that he knows will upset you just for a laugh is both humiliating and insulting.

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In fact when we are around his friends or in public he is sweet and more affectionate than when we are just sitting at home doing nothing.

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That would be a problem for me as well. It's like he's concerned with putting a good face on things when he's out in public, but when you're alone together, he's not as concerned with being sweet or affectionate. If you're thinking about marrying this guy, consider the fact that you'll spend many, many years alone with him--that's the behavior that's got to count.

I hate to sound so negative. I just hope you'll have an honest coversation with him about all this before you make any commitments.