I know this is an old post, but it is still relevant to my situation.

So I am planning on asking him to go with me to North Carolina. He used to live there and talks about it all the time. I was talking to my therapist and she suggested that it would be a good idea to go between spring and summer courses and it would be just the two of us. He is going to Indiana to visit a friend for a week and he might go to Maryland to visit another for a little while. I told him I wanted to go on vacation too and he asked me where. Instead of saying, "I want to go to North Carolina with you because I want to see everything that you tell me about" I say "I don't know." I was so scared I just froze. Could not get those simple words out of my mouth. What is wrong with me. It was perfect timing. He asked me and I blew it! But all my mind can think is "what if he says no?" I would be so frustrated if he said no. And crushed. This is so terrible and now I'm going to be thinking about it all night!