well good for you, melissa  . so glad u're not allowing this person to run u away from AA. i was referencing your T since i didn't know if AA was kaput for you right now. my sponsor told me once, don't ever allow someone to run you away from AA. it's your program and no one has the right to dictate to you. we sponsors only give suggestions. to be honest some are strong suggestions but still it's your choice what you do. you'll know now when you see a red flag like that woman.
i'm really proud of you for protecting yours!!! and with a great attitude too. you'll be fine. just take your time to find a sponsor that's a good match. if it turns south again, say NEXT! 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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