I think I have brought perseverance and trust to my T.....she sees that and respects it. I don't think she has had anyone before with whom she had such a huge rupture who was able to keep coming back and trusting her.....she said others have not been able to come back. So that I did meant a lot to her and has made an impression on her I think......
The situation with my attachment and how she handled it and the mistakes she made that she admitted....I think has helped her look more closely at some things within herself and how she deals with attachment. I think she has learned a few deeper things about grace and humility in owning her mistakes.
I think we have both grown over the course of my therapy.....and given each other gifts, mostly that of trust and grace and honesty.