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JustBen said:
If she was so impaired that she didn't know what she was doing, then I don't think she's responsible for her actions...

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So . . . by that "theory" it would not be her fault if she was drinking and driving and killed someone, either, huh?

She is an adult. She is responsible for each drink she consumed. She is responsible for her actions.

But the point isn't "who is responsible" . . . the point is what healthy things can marriageinflux do for his marriage??? I suggest Al-anon.