Thanks J-Bug.... we will need it with this ONE - for while we love him he has always been the rebellious kid of the family. He sees things his way and usually refuses to see it any other way. And while we are doing our best to treat him as the adult he is, we also have to keep the rules & peace with in the house for our self and our younger son.

BTW - of course he is denying even going to the sites - he is saying that he was chatting with females on line through IM and that their PIC LINKS took him there - and while I know that is possible he still should have used better judgment.... he knows how his father and I are and what we ask of our kids.
Plus I have already caught him in one lie this week, so why should I trust him on this one when the proof was right there on my computer this morning?

I PRAY for PEACE and UNDERSTAND.... hope I do not loose it - feeling stressed & anxious.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -