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Old May 01, 2011, 08:53 PM
ToastwithButter ToastwithButter is offline
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So this girl I really care for and I broke up and went NC for about 6 days. I texted her and apologized and she says she has been enjoying her space and would like to remain friends. She also stated that she did miss my company. She would like to hang out on occasion.

This morning she texts me out the blue for small chit chat. She then asks if I could help her find stuff at the library tomorrow afternoon. I text her tonight to ask how her day went and she replies with 'was ok. u?' I reply that my day was great and asked for a movie suggestion. No reply. An hour later I texted that she must be busy and to have a good night then. No response.

What does this mean? Is she just feeling guilty about the breakup and wanting to keep me apart of her life? Or is she hoping for reconciliation down the road and getting back together? Has anyone went from being in a relationship to just being friends and could help me decode what she is meaning?

Tomorrow I was thinking about having lunch with her to talk about our friendship and where we should stand. I really think we should get the issue as to whether we are ever going to be in a relationship out the way early on so that I can squash remaining feelings and so that it does not ruin a potentially good friendship later.

Any help is appreciated.
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