Thanks for pointing this out to us, Roses! I usually say I'm fine to folks, cuz they ask out of decorum not because the really want to know the whole nitty-gritty. I think too, when we are in a down mood, it perpetuates itself. When I am really down, I don't come here and read the forums much as it's too painful. But, conversely, I feel better when I sense I am helping others. And, sometimes, it does us good to vent and express our hidden thoughts and fears. I guess it's all about talking about it in the right context, for the right reasons. And good to pose ourselves as cheerful and seek more pleasant surroundings to feel better.