I would like to hear the thoughts of other people.

My boyfriend of 10 years talks about sex constantly. ex . On a 3 hour car trip, I timed him. He talked about other stuff (mostly football ) for 15 minutes and sex for 2 hours and 45 minutes. He either plans our next sexual encounter... in detail. what he will do. what he wants me to do. Or he relives in detail what we have already done. He can remember all sexual details from 2 years ago on vacation but remembers far less the other activities that we did. If we are in the mall, he pressures me to do it in the washroom. If we are at the park, he want to do it behind a building etc..

The only useful comment I have had so far was from a sex therapist that I was seeing for mysself. she said, 'he must really enjoy it.'

A few years ago, at a wedding, I was seated next to a man who installed garage doors. After hearing about garage doors for 20 minutes, I was done, he found the distance of the doors from the street especially facinating.

I don't understand how someone can go on and on about the same subject for so long when the other person tells them to stop.

Even my autistic son has learned to ask people... are you interested in chess ... before he launches into a very long converssation.

Hearing about sex so often makes me feel like a sexual object and not a human being.

I am really interested in hearing other people's thoughts.

roses