I want to thank everybody for their input into my issue. It has been two days and I continue to feel angry, disrespected, and still have nothing really to say to my wife.

In my reply to notthemama, we have been married a few years and I can honestly say that we have tried marriage counseling as more of a proactive approach to dealing with the possibility of having children. In my opinion, my wife has always drank excessively (falling asleep sitting up). She however has not been an angry drinker but more of a "loveable" type. This is the first negative effect that has happened based on her drinking (that I know of). I do worry about her driving home after drinking and injuring herself or another. I have always encouraged her to call me or stay over at her friends homes.

I am continually looking to receive additional input as I look to help resolve this issue.

Thanks to everyone..it means a lot.