Me and the new guy, Vic, aren't going to do anything until I get rid of my bf. I am planning on giving my bf ample time to leave, though. I'm not worried about my bf's reaction...well I am worried he'll be hurt, but otherwise I'm not worried at all.

Thank you for being so supportive, LMo. I know a lot of people will be happy to see this post!

I just can't live like this and Vic said I don't have to take his abuse...and I agree.