She watches tv in the living room while I play games in the bedroom. I am not interested in watching the shows she likes and I usually end up bugging her while she's watching tv. To me, there is no easy way to say "hey I feel ignored" but I will usually start with hey is there something bothering you. We do eat together at a table but more often than not she has one of her tv shows on. I've tried to arrange one night a week a date night however something comes up like for instances last Sunday she was suppose to take us to see a movie (we alternate paying weekly) but she had some finacal issues so she couldn't pay and even though I offered to pay she said it was the prinicpal. We haven't had a date night in about four weeks when I last paid for bowling. And about moving both the activities in the same room, we use to have everything jamed into one room where we lived before and we had both agreed in was annoying, although at this point, I wouldn't mind just to be around her again. Over the weekend I did tell her I wanted to see a therapist I didn't tell her the reason since I have a lot of things going on with my family and work and then myself, she told me the only way I could is if we went together since she has really good insurance and I have none. She told me I could just talk to who ever and she sit on in but I don't feel comfortable saying hey I'm not happy with this this and this, by the way, I think I'm having relationship problems as well to a therapist. Its a lot of pressure just thinking about talking about my problems with her listening in.