He is 53. I am 47.

tara... I checked out the forty questions... I am not sure the term sex addict applies as we have been together for 10 years and I know he is not having sex elsewhere and he was married for 20 years before that. And the issue with me is not the sex itself... it is just the non stop talking about it

we went to a christmas dinner with his collegues (mostly male because he is a technician) and their wives and girlfriends. He managed to bring up the topic of sex 3 times over dinner (including gestures and sound effects). The other guys, even if they were thinking it, they never mentionned it.

He left his marriage because there no more sex. I am assuming she just got fed up hearing about it. We have the same values and interests and we love each other and the sex is good. It is just the talking about it. I hope to read more posts. I would like to find some sexual peace in this relationship


roses