Well I think part of the problem was that I was overreacting (as I usually do) and also the boyfriend is a philospher and really does live in his own world. His semester ends tomorrow and he has truly been preoccupied with work. I did not call him at all. He called Saturday morning and left a voicemail apologizing. I did not call back. He sent a text on Sunday and I replied 1.5 hours later. He called on his way home and decided to come right over to my place and ended up staying the night and it was very obvious he missed me. Once again being bi-polar resulted in me getting upset over nothing, but he was gone and never saw or even knew how upset I was. By the time I saw him I was over my anger and all is well in the kingdom again.