The T is in charge of knowing HOW to get the therapy relationship to work.
If they don't manage the relationship, and it falls apart, it is NOT the fault of the client. A client has "issues" that they have to work through. That is why they are in therapy. Don't give up on your peace of mind. The right T will see your pattern and will be able to offer some tools to help you fix those patterns that are no longer helping you.